When it comes to dating, women are always out to compete. We’ve all experienced it. You’re at a bar or club and suddenly it turns into this big hungry shark fest. Women circle the joint trying to determine where the potential bachelors are and if the guy they’re interested in happens to be interested in YOU…watch out !
For lack of a better word let’s call these women… C-blockers.
C-blockers will do everything in their power to get noticed by the man that’s digging YOU. They’ll stand right next to him. Smile at him. Flirt with him. Try to dance with him. Even if he’s not the hottest thing walking, they need HIM looking at them.
The fact that you’re getting attention (not them) is a direct insult to them. What do you have that they don’t? They need to know. See, these women aren’t out to get your man necessarily, they just need to see where THEY stand. They need to prove to themselves that they’re better than you and can have this man if they want.
C-blockers come in all varieties… Beautiful women. Not so beautiful women. The beautiful women may initially seem to pose more of a threat but the truth of the matter is, they don’t… It’s all about how you handle it.
So what’s the best way to handle these women and get rid of them for good?
- For starters, do NOT turn your back to them. Giving them your back reads: insecure. Women sense insecurity and if you allow them, they will gladly take advantage of it. It makes them feel superior. You don’t want that! Keep in mind, your man of interest is watching how you handle this situation so you want to show him you’re confident and not easily intimidated. You don’t want to empower these women. Take the power and control in your hands. Not to mention, these women may stick around until you finally do turn around which works against you. The goal is to get rid of these women. You don’t want them standing around longer than you can stomach them!
- Look right through them. Play the game. Even if you are facing in their direction, do NOT acknowledge them.. Sure you saw them an hour ago, but you didn’t even realize they were still in the room! They’re not noteworthy or worth your attention.
- Don’t seem overly interested in this man. The more you seem to want him, the more THEY want him and in turn, the more of a challenge it becomes. Don’t care so much. Besides, if this guy is going to ditch you for them, he’s not worth it anyway.
- Remind yourself of one very important fact: women come in all shapes and sizes. Sure a woman might be more beautiful, wear nicer clothes, have whiter teeth… but that doesn’t make her BETTER. The truth is, she’s simply different. There is only one YOU. You bring a different package to the table that no one else can possibly offer. Keep playing this message in your head if you have to.
See, the bottom line is by ignoring these women you kill their plan. They failed at bringing down your self-esteem and as a result, they walk away …DEFEATED.
A beautiful c-blocker defeated. That’s what you want ;)
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